Now we will just have to deal as we always have with this. What is eating at her goes well beyond money. I appreciate the sentiment, my friend. The more distressing part of what you said is how your husband is acting and treating you. Denial only prolongs your pain.
It is not an option for him to have any form of custody of our children and I can get a therapist statement to why.
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Although he is not diagnosed I believe he has a covert narcissist personality. My son lives with me at this point and is stretched thin financially. I have no idea what it is, but you will figure it out if you pay attention and give it a little time. They require excessive admiration. Try to honestly answer these questions for yourself.